Blessed with the best _ Alhumdulillah!a million times for every blessing in my life.
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What's that you've been practicing lately?
"Self-control"
Not everything I feel should be said.
To anyone. At anytime.
Not every person is worth seeing my kind soft side.
Not everything should be explained and not everyone would understand.
My emotions should be precious enough and appreciated.
And if not then they shouldn't be exposed.
I learnt that sometimes it takes a lot of pain and dissappointments to be a person who learn to be in control.
And just like that, you are living a du’a you made in the distant past. But because time changed hands and the seasons became drawn out, it may not feel like it once did. But just because the blessing comes after some time, it does not render it any less valuable. It is still a great blessing, deserving of our utmost gratitude - because we asked for it… alas, we begged for it once upon a time.
We are always living upon a du’a.
What do you expect people to do when you take them for granted?
Its not a grand movie or something where they will die ; cry ; act crazy and be there for you no matter how trashy you behave.
In real life,even the most generous ones would leave you if the efforts are not reciprocated right?
Even if you don’t feel the same way for them,it is still your loss because you are losing a well-wisher now.
The ones who walked away from you has nothing to lose from you literally except that they were hurt in the process of holding onto you for so long which is time-limited.It will eventually pass someday if not today.
Infect it is very liberating for people to leave once they have done their part for good.
Sometimes His blessings are not obvious!
"When Allah loves you he won’t necessarily bless you in ways that are obvious or material like a new high-powered job or prestigious degrees. Instead, He will favor you in ways that make you more grounded internally and make you a better human being. He will give you a better sense of self. He will give you a better sense of self-worth. He will give you clarity in knowledge. He will give you clarity in knowing Him. He will give you more opportunities to help others. And ultimately, He will give you peace of mind and a sound heart. Sometimes His blessings are not obvious."
You cannot judge people by their financial status, by their fame, by their name, by their disposition in life, by their profession, by their passion or judge their entire book if you haven't read every detail of each paragraph and understood what's beyond every line. You cannot judge people about their life style for these people are also products of many attempts, many failures, and many despairs—they are trying too just like you.
Many are still on journey, some are still wandering, some have already figured their way out, and some are still trying to take steps forward. Many people wear different ways and colors in living their lives, no one fits in the same shoe. So, don't look first on who and what they have become, see what they have gone through and try to understand.
We all are always struggling, risking, and learning. Always appreciate your progress and other people's.
when we are tying to look at things at one angle, we won't be able to see so much. but if we try to look at things both in higher and deeper perspectives, then we will see that there are so many things that we should be grateful for but we often take them for granted because we only see the greater and bigger ones as something that counts. most times, we overlooked that tiny details, little things, ordinary moments and small winnings are actually the ones that are monumental and life itself.
that alone, life is never really that harsh on everyone of us, we just don't try to look at the details and be grateful of what we have at the moment.
There is so much life in you, there is so much passion in you, there is so much art in you—there is so much soul in you that even the currents in the river, even the tints of the sky, even the smell of the ground when washed with rain and even with the gentle strokes of the wind can hardly translate them into your own language.
you have so much beauty to live for—
that soul in you is still young, bold, innocent and pure—hold it still and keep it in your palms,
you are ever beauty made one with the earth.
your language is your beauty.
