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What's that you've been practicing lately?



 What's that you've been practicing lately?


"Self-control"


Not everything I feel should be said.

To anyone. At anytime.

Not every person is worth seeing my kind soft side.

Not everything should be explained and not everyone would understand.

My emotions should be precious enough and appreciated.

And if not then they shouldn't be exposed.


I learnt that sometimes it takes a lot of pain and dissappointments to be a person who learn to be in control.



And just like that, you are living a du’a you made in the distant past.




 And just like that, you are living a du’a you made in the distant past. But because time changed hands and the seasons became drawn out, it may not feel like it once did. But just because the blessing comes after some time, it does not render it any less valuable. It is still a great blessing, deserving of our utmost gratitude - because we asked for it… alas, we begged for it once upon a time.


We are always living upon a du’a.




What do you expect people to do when you take them for granted?



 What do you expect people to do when you take them for granted?


Its not a grand movie or something where they will die ; cry ; act crazy and be there for you no matter how trashy you behave.


In real life,even the most generous ones would leave you if the efforts are not reciprocated right?

Even if you don’t feel the same way for them,it is still your loss because you are losing a well-wisher now.


The ones who walked away from you has nothing to lose from you literally except that they were hurt in the process of holding onto you for so long which is time-limited.It will eventually pass someday if not today.

Infect it is very liberating for people to leave once they have done their part for good.



Sometimes His blessings are not obvious!



 Sometimes His blessings are not obvious!

"When Allah loves you he won’t necessarily bless you in ways that are obvious or material like a new high-powered job or prestigious degrees. Instead, He will favor you in ways that make you more grounded internally and make you a better human being. He will give you a better sense of self. He will give you a better sense of self-worth. He will give you clarity in knowledge. He will give you clarity in knowing Him. He will give you more opportunities to help others. And ultimately, He will give you peace of mind and a sound heart. Sometimes His blessings are not obvious." 


کبھی یوں بھی ہو۔۔۔!



کبھی یوں بھی ہو۔۔۔!

کچھ ان کہے سے لفظ ہوں
کچھ ان سنے سے مکالمے۔۔۔!

کچھ رنگ ہوں کہ عجیب ہوں
نہ سمجھ میں میری بھی آسکیں۔۔۔!

کچھ دلفریب سے راستے
کہ چلوں تو تھک کے گروں نہیں۔..!

کبھی یوں بھی ہو کہ میں چپ رہوں
تو سنے میری ہی خامشی۔۔۔!

میرے درد سارے سمیٹ لے
مجھے پھر سے جینا سیکھا دے     
     کبھی یوں بھی ہو!



Love (arab. hubb – الحب)


Love (arab. hubb – الحب)

What does it mean to love nowadays?
To love someone for their manners, for their looks, for their heart, for their entertainment, for their money or other things.
But Islam teaches us to love every creature of Allah for Allah's sake. It means, we love person xy not because we might have a potential benefit from the person, or because we feel good about the person due to various factors, but because Allah is the Creator of this creature. Loving someone or something for Allah is the purest form of love. You love people or nature not only because of their abilities or their appearance, but primarily because you love the Creator. And the second reason to love someone is because of their religion, Islam. Alhamdulillah for Islam.


اگر کوئی آپ کا نہیں ہے تو آنے والوں کے لئے دروازہ بند نہ کریں،


اگر کوئی آپ کا نہیں ہے 
تو آنے والوں کے لئے دروازہ بند نہ کریں،
جو نہیں آ رہا اس کا راستہ کوئی اور ہے،
جو آرہا ہے، اس کی راہ آپ ہیں،

This was a coincidence when I met my friend after 4 year 
Last time we met in our intermediate farewell and few days ago he completed his graduation❤
Chalo aao mil bethty hain yaar purany🖤

He told me a peice of his story " mujhe koi pasand aagaya tha aur kisi ko mein pasand aagaya tha per yaar mujhe kisi doosrey mein interest nahi lena tha aur shaiyed isi wajah se mein mentally distributed raha kayyi saalo tak sleeping pills leta raha SSRis Antidepressants leta raha lekin wo jo andar ki tarap thi wo khatam nahi horahi thi mein uskey liye tarap raha tha aur wo kisi aur ke liye apni duniya saja raha tha"

Meiny dost ko bataya ke bhai usney tumhe reject kiya tha cheat nahi! Jo tumney aany walo ke liye raasty band kardiye! Even you hadn't any idea ke jo aaraha hai wo shahyed tumhare naseeb mein likha gaya ho! He was quite! and said" yar ab sach bataon to pachtawa hota hai na mein kisi ko apna buna paya na hi mein kisi ka bun paya and reason was she"
Do you all know the real meaning of being rejected? It means declined not stopped! Aur ham apny aap pe zulm karne lag jatay hain! Khud ko be sakoon kardetey hain! Apna life style kharab kardetey hain! Akele beth ke depression se sarr rahay hoty hain aur kisi aise insan ki yaad mein jal rahy hoty hain aur ye koi dosra hamary sath nahi karta ham khud apny sath kartay hain"

اللہ کہتا ہے میرے بندے میں تیرے ایک ایک آنسو کے قطرے کی لاج رکھنے والا ہوں تم خود سے محبت کرو خود کو تکلیف مت دو!

Aur ham insan ke peechy khud ko taqleef mein daal detey hain! Jab jal jal ke kisi doosry ko life mein shamil karte hain to uski zara si attention hamein Hairan kardeti hai hamein sakoon milny lagta hai! Darasal ham zaleel ho chuky hoty hain warna Allah kisi ko uski bardash se zyada taqleef nahi deta! Baat sirf muhabt ki nahi hai baat sabar aur darguzr karne ki hai agar koi aapka nahi hai to usko darguzr karo aur aagy barh jao zindagi khatm nahi hui na hi manzil khatm hui hai koi acha musafir aapke intzar mein hoga usko sath me shamil karein aur wahi se continue karein jahan se aap ne kisi ko shamil kiya tha us chapter ko apni life se close karke new chapter ko uspe replace karein aur apny rabb ki di hui zindagi ko sakoon se jeeyen❤
Indeed Allah is best planner🌻

میرا ہونا ہے تو مکمل میرے ہونا،

You cannot judge people by their financial status, by their fame, by their name,


 You cannot judge people by their financial status, by their fame, by their name, by their disposition in life, by their profession, by their passion or judge their entire book if you haven't read every detail of each paragraph and understood what's beyond every line. You cannot judge people about their life style for these people are also products of many attempts, many failures, and many despairs—they are trying too just like you.


Many are still on journey, some are still wandering, some have already figured their way out, and some are still trying to take steps forward. Many people wear different ways and colors in living their lives, no one fits in the same shoe. So, don't look first on who and what they have become, see what they have gone through and try to understand.


We all are always struggling, risking, and learning. Always appreciate your progress and other people's.




when we are tying to look at things at one angle,

 



when we are tying to look at things at one angle, we won't be able to see so much. but if we try to look at things both in higher and deeper perspectives, then we will see that there are so many things that we should be grateful for but we often take them for granted because we only see the greater and bigger ones as something that counts. most times, we overlooked that tiny details, little things, ordinary moments and small winnings are actually the ones that are monumental and life itself.


that alone, life is never really that harsh on everyone of us, we just don't try to look at the details and be grateful of what we have at the moment.



There is so much life in you, there is so much passion in you




 There is so much life in you, there is so much passion in you, there is so much art in you—there is so much soul in you that even the currents in the river, even the tints of the sky, even the smell of the ground when washed with rain and even with the gentle strokes of the wind can hardly translate them into your own language.


you have so much beauty to live for—

that soul in you is still young, bold, innocent and pure—hold it still and keep it in your palms,


you are ever beauty made one with the earth.

your language is your beauty.



I have been very Consistent Friend Try to Understand everyone But



زباں زباں پر محبت کا ورد ہے لیکن 
دلوں دلوں میں محض وقت کا گزارا

I have been very Consistent Friend Try to Understand everyone But Sadly I have Never been Understood by anyone. And That's Actually Very Sad . whenever I'm Going Through the Tough phase Of Life. and Need a Person/People to share Thoughts And get Advice from , I only Feel Emptier and Emptier and It Tears me up By Thinking About the Lack Of "Realfriends". I feel miserable for this .
تم کو سو لوگ میسر ہیں رفاقت کے لئے 
تم نہ ہونے کی اذیت کو کہاں سمجھو گے🥀

That's why I Think Being Addicted to people Is Like Inviting Injuries To Your Soul 💫 and I am Pro at Inviting Injuries To My Soul . Sometimes People Ask Me "How Many friends Do You have?" and I stand Like So dumb Because The Meaning Of Friendship I have Is So different from So Many Of My friends🖤

آنسو اٹھا لیتے ہیں میرے غموں کا بوجھ
یہ وہ دوست ہیں جو احسان جتایا نہیں کرتے🌟


اَللہ خُود سامنے نَہیں آتا، اَپنے بَندوں کے لیے بندوں سے ہی وَسِیلے بَناتا ہے


"اَللہ خُود سامنے نَہیں آتا، اَپنے بَندوں کے لیے بندوں سے ہی وَسِیلے بَناتا ہے، اور اُنہیں اَندھے کُنویں میں گِرنے سے بَچا لیتا ہے۔ 
وہ اَپنے مَعصُوم بَندوں کو آزماتا ضَرور ہے مَگر، نَہ اُنہیں تَنہا 
چھوڑتا ہے اور نَہ ہی مایُوس ہونے دیتا ہے۔" 🤍✨



Enjoy your weekend


"As it's Sunday again, I hope you get to spend more time with yourself, your family, and friends." 


Good morning people!
Have a very nice day ahead of you. 
Enjoy your weekend.
❤️💙🤎


جو مقام "شکوے" کا ھوتا ھے




 جو مقام "شکوے" کا ھوتا ھے

وھی مقام "شکر" کا بھی ھوتا ھے

لیکن ھم اس مقام پر

" شکوه" جلدی

اور" شکر" دیر سے ادا کرتے ھیں

ھر بات میں" خیر" ڈھونڈا کریں

اور"الحمد لله" کہنے کی عادت اپنا ليں




Why does Allāh want us to be patient in times of trial and problems


Why does Allāh want us to be patient in times of trial and problems? It's because Allāh wants us to realize that everything will be better. Allāh wants us to realize that He is just testing us, and His trial is not a hindrance to us, rather it is a blessing. How beautiful would it be if every trial that Allāh gave us—we deal with it as what Allāh has commanded us to do,—with patience. Every moment that we deal with problems with beautiful patience is an act of worship. An act of worship that will surely be greatly rewarded in the hereafter. 

As Allāh promised us in the Qur'an, 

إِنَّمَا يُوَفَّى الصَّابِرُونَ أَجْرَهُمْ بِغَيْرِ حِسَابٍ
"Indeed, the patient will be given their reward with account."

إِنَّ مَعَ الْعُسْرِ يُسْرًا 
"Verily, with every hardship comes ease."

May Allāh keep us steadfast in His deen.

— 

جب کوئی پریشانی میرے سر پر سوار ہوئی میں نے کبھی اسے کسی کے ساتھ نہیں بانٹا۔





جب کوئی پریشانی میرے سر پر سوار ہوئی میں نے کبھی
 اسے کسی کے ساتھ نہیں بانٹا۔میں نے ہر پہلو سے خود ہی سوچا، نتیجے پر پہنچا اور اکیلے ہی فیصلہ کیا۔

ایسا نہیں کہ میں نے حقیقتا خود کو اکیلا محسوس کیا۔میں نے یہی سوچا پریشانیاں ایسی ہی ہوتی ہیں
انسان کو اپنے زورِ بازو پر ہی مضبوط رہنا ہے یہی حتمی تجزیہ ہے



When something bothered me, I didn't talk with anyone about it. I thought it over all by myself, came to a conclusion, and took action alone. Not that I really felt lonely. I thought that's just the way things are. Human beings, in the final analysis, have to survive on their own.

~Haruki Murakami, 



اور جو دوست تم سے مخلص ہو کر محبت کرے

 
 "وصديقٌ يحبك بصدق خيرٌ لك من مدينة كاملة من البشر"

اور جو دوست تم سے مخلص ہو کر محبت کرے، وہ تمھارے لیے انسانوں کے پورے شہر سے بہتر ہے

! :") 💜



When munir niazi said,



When munir niazi said, 

‎ہمیشہ دیر کر دیتا ہوں میں ہر کام کرنے میں.    

 I went back in past reminiscing all times I 
was late. Late to apologise. Late to realise.
Late to be there. 

But it is also said, 

دیر ہی ہوئ تھی مر تو نہیں گۓ تھے، 
تم ہمارا انتظار بھی کر سکتے تھے۔ 

So why when I mattered so much they didn't wait for me? When our friendship was strong why they left their hope of my coming back?

Haven't they heard?
 
صبح کا بھولا اگر شام کو گھر آۓ تو اُسے بھولا نہیں کہتے۔

So was our friendship fragile or were you too hopeless? Was I really late or your prayers were answered with my departure? 


زندگی ہم سے بہت بڑی چھلانگ کا مطالبہ نہیں کرتی،


 

زندگی ہم سے بہت بڑی چھلانگ  کا مطالبہ نہیں کرتی،
ایک ہی جست میں منزل پر پہنچ جانا نہیں مانگتی،
یک دم سب بدل لینا نہیں مانگتی.
 بلکہ 
روزانہ خود کو تھوڑا سا بدلنا،
 پہلے سے کچھ بہتر بنانا،
ایک بری عادت چھوڑ دینا،
ایک اچھی عادت اپنالینا!
 غرض یہ کہ
 اپنی سوچ، اپنے رویوں اور زندگی میں تبدیلی لانے کے لیے کوشش مانگتی ہے.
 خوش رہیں
 خوشیاں بانٹنے رہیں.😊



Maybe we would be a lot happier if we accepted people just like we accept sunsets''?


 

''Maybe we would be a lot happier if we accepted people just like we accept sunsets''?


 ''How''?

''Sunsets don't stay forever but they still make our lives beautiful''.