بساطِ دِل بھی عجیب شے ھے

بساطِ دِل بھی عجیب شے ھے، ھزار جیتیں ھزار ماتیں 

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تو نہ سمجھے گا اس محبت کو

تو نہ سمجھے گا اس محبت کو

سر پہ تیرے سوار تھوڑی ہے

‏چاند تارے بِلا وجہ خُوش ھیں

‏چاند تارے بِلا وجہ خُوش ھیں

 میں کِسی اور سے مخاطب ہوں

‏میں آپ ہی کا تو مسلئہ ہوں

‏میں آپ ہی کا تو مسلئہ ہوں

مُجھے سوچیے، کہ میرا حَل نکلے

.کسی کا سکون اور زندگی چھیننے کے کفارے ایسے ادا نہیں ہوتے

اسے معلوم تو ہو گیا ہو گا کہ کسی کو راہ میں چھوڑنا کفر سے بھی بڑا گناہ ھے اور وہ اس گناہ کا ارتکاب کرچکا ھے۔۔اسے یہ ڈر تو رہتا ہو گا کہ مقابل کو دی گئی اذیت کہیں اسکی طرف رخ نہ کرلے اسلیے وہ اس احساس جرم کے بوجھ سے نکلنے کی ہر ممکن کوشش کرتاہو گا مگر کامیاب نہیں ہوپاتا ہو گا۔

نمازیں پڑھتا ہو گا ، نفلی روزے رکھتا ہو گا۔۔وہ سمجھتا ہو گا کہ شاید اپنے کیے جرم کا عبادات سے کفارہ ادا ہوجائیگا۔۔۔

اسے کوئی بتائے

کہ

!! ....کسی کا سکون اور زندگی چھیننے کے کفارے ایسے ادا نہیں ہوتے

I once asked a very successful woman to share her secret with me

I once asked a very successful woman to share her secret with me. She smiled and said to me..

"I started succeeding when I started leaving small fights for small fighters.
I stopped fighting those who gossiped about me...
I stopped fighting with my in laws...
I stopped fighting for attention...
I stopped fighting to meet peoples expectation of me...
I stopped fighting for my rights with inconsiderate people..
I stopped fighting to please everyone...
I stopped fighting to prove they were wrong about me....
I left such fights for those who have nothing else to fight...

And I started fighting for
my vision,
my dreams,
my ideas and
my destiny.

The day I gave up on small fights is the day I started becoming successful & so much more content."

Some fights are not worth your time..... Choose what you fight for wisely.

Why do we seek fame?

Why do we seek fame?

Have you ever thought about it? We want to be famous as a writer, as a poet, as a painter, as a politician, as a singer, or what you will. Why? Because we really don't love what we are doing. If you loved to sing, or to paint, or to write poems if you really loved it you would not be concerned with whether you are famous or not. To want to be famous is tawdry, trivial, it has no meaning, but, because we don't love what we are doing, we want to enrich ourselves with fame. Our present education is rotten because it teaches us to love success and not what we are doing. The result has become more important than the action.

You know, it is good to hide your brilliance under a bushel, to be anonymous, to love what you are doing and not to show off. It is good to be kind without a name. That does not make you famous, it does not cause your photograph to appear in the newspapers. Politicians do not come to your door.

You are just a creative human being living anonymously, and in that there is richness and great beauty.

- K

If somebody tells me that the sky is gree

If somebody tells me that the sky is green, and I believe it to be blue, I don’t need to argue with them, prove myself right by making them wrong, or call them names, I just walk away from that conversation with the newfound knowledge that to some people the sky looks green. That’s all. The blueness of my sky is not at all jeopardized by how green someone else perceives it to be.

Imagine how much easier life would be if we stopped fighting about every little thing. Loosen your grip, smile, it’s all okay. All of it.

- Timber Hawkeye

You know, it is good to hide your brilliance under a bushel,

You know, it is good to hide your brilliance under a bushel, to be anonymous, to love what you are doing and not to show off. It is good to be kind without a name. That does not make you famous, it does not cause your photograph to appear in the newspapers. Politicians do not come to your door. You are just a creative human being living anonymously, and in that there is richness and great beauty.

- K

Do you know what love is?

Do you know what love is? Do you know what it is to love people? To look after a tree, to brush a dog, comb it, feed it, means that you care for the tree, you feel great affection for the dog. I do not know whether you have noticed a tree in a street for which nobody cares, occasionally people look at it and pass it by. That tree is entirely different from a tree that is cared for in a garden, a tree you sit under, look at, on which you see the leaves, climb the branches. Such a tree grows with strength. When you look after a tree, when you give it water, manure, when you trim it, prune it, care for it, it has a different feeling altogether from the tree that grows by the roadside.

The feeling of care is the beginning of affection. You know, the more you look after things, the more sensitive you become. So there has to be affection, a sense of tenderness, kindliness, generosity. If there is such affection, then behaviour is dictated by that affection and is not dependent on environment, circumstance, or people. And to find that affection is one of the most difficult things - to be really affectionate whether people are kind to you or not kind to you, whether they talk to you roughly, or whether they are irritated with you. I think children have it. You all have it when you are young. You feel very friendly with one another, with people.

But as you grow older, all this disappears. And so to have affection right through life is one of the most difficult things and without it life becomes very empty. You may have children, you may have a nice house, a car and all the rest of it, but without affection life is like a flower that has no scent. And it is part of education, is it not, to come to this affection, from which there is great joy, from which alone love can come.

- K