کئی بار مل چکے ہوتے تم
جو اگر دعاوں سے ملتے۔
.کسی کا سکون اور زندگی چھیننے کے کفارے ایسے ادا نہیں ہوتے
اسے معلوم تو ہو گیا ہو گا کہ کسی کو راہ میں چھوڑنا کفر سے بھی بڑا گناہ ھے اور وہ اس گناہ کا ارتکاب کرچکا ھے۔۔اسے یہ ڈر تو رہتا ہو گا کہ مقابل کو دی گئی اذیت کہیں اسکی طرف رخ نہ کرلے اسلیے وہ اس احساس جرم کے بوجھ سے نکلنے کی ہر ممکن کوشش کرتاہو گا مگر کامیاب نہیں ہوپاتا ہو گا۔
نمازیں پڑھتا ہو گا ، نفلی روزے رکھتا ہو گا۔۔وہ سمجھتا ہو گا کہ شاید اپنے کیے جرم کا عبادات سے کفارہ ادا ہوجائیگا۔۔۔
اسے کوئی بتائے
کہ
!! ....کسی کا سکون اور زندگی چھیننے کے کفارے ایسے ادا نہیں ہوتے
I once asked a very successful woman to share her secret with me
I once asked a very successful woman to share her secret with me. She smiled and said to me..
"I started succeeding when I started leaving small fights for small fighters.
I stopped fighting those who gossiped about me...
I stopped fighting with my in laws...
I stopped fighting for attention...
I stopped fighting to meet peoples expectation of me...
I stopped fighting for my rights with inconsiderate people..
I stopped fighting to please everyone...
I stopped fighting to prove they were wrong about me....
I left such fights for those who have nothing else to fight...
And I started fighting for
my vision,
my dreams,
my ideas and
my destiny.
The day I gave up on small fights is the day I started becoming successful & so much more content."
Some fights are not worth your time..... Choose what you fight for wisely.
Why do we seek fame?
Why do we seek fame?
Have you ever thought about it? We want to be famous as a writer, as a poet, as a painter, as a politician, as a singer, or what you will. Why? Because we really don't love what we are doing. If you loved to sing, or to paint, or to write poems if you really loved it you would not be concerned with whether you are famous or not. To want to be famous is tawdry, trivial, it has no meaning, but, because we don't love what we are doing, we want to enrich ourselves with fame. Our present education is rotten because it teaches us to love success and not what we are doing. The result has become more important than the action.
You know, it is good to hide your brilliance under a bushel, to be anonymous, to love what you are doing and not to show off. It is good to be kind without a name. That does not make you famous, it does not cause your photograph to appear in the newspapers. Politicians do not come to your door.
You are just a creative human being living anonymously, and in that there is richness and great beauty.
- K
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