Learn to do things quietly behind the scenes at times

Learn to do things quietly behind the scenes at times. You don't need to scream or shout out to the world & tell everyone what you're doing!

Dear whoever is reading now,

I know it’s hard.

I know that not everyone understands things the way you do,

Or sees them from your perspective.

I know you have questions,

Many of them,

None of them answered.

I know your dreams seem so far away,

And you’re wondering if you’re on the right track altogether.

Just know that,

One day,

You will look back at all of this,

And it won’t really matter as much.

You’ll be somewhere else,

Doing something else,

And everything worrying you right now,

All the things that are making you anxious,

Won’t be a part of your life anymore,

You may not even remember them.

While it may feel terrible now,

It’s also shaping you,

Preparing you,

To be the person you’re supposed to be.

Hang in there, buddy.

Your parents don’t know the pressure you get from college

Your parents don’t know the pressure you get from college, your personal problems and your relationships/friendships. Your friends don’t know anything about your new commitments and you being busy most of the time. Your new friends don’t know anything about the “let downs” you had before in your past relationships and no one really knows about your deep inside feelings towards anything, so just before blaming try to be nice, understanding and flexible, life is already complicated and it’s hardly understandable.

Sometimes you don't feel happy or sad

Sometimes you don't feel happy or sad. Sometimes you just feel empty. There's no feeling at all, that's exactly how I feel right now. Empty.

Sometimes you know the reason behind it and sometimes you don't and sometimes you know, but you make yourself believe that you don't. Sometimes you don't want to accept the reality. Sometimes you just want to run very far away from this world and build your own little world where you could have everything you have ever wished for.

But there's a rule of this world; a harsh one, I must say. You will be tested here for everything. Your loved ones will be taken away from you. You won't ever get the only thing you wanted the most in this world. You'll lose friends. So after all that, it's okay to feel empty sometimes. It's okay to feel nothing because you literally have nothing with you. You're alone, silent, fighting your own battle. But the most scary part is that you might remain alone... and empty. Forever!

کچھ لوگ ہوتے ہیں

کچھ لوگ ہوتے ہیں جنہیں دوسروں کو کاٹ کر ٹکڑے ٹکڑے کرنے کے لیے خنجر کی ہرگز ضرورت نہیں ہوتی

دنیا میں اگر کوئی چیز قابل بھروسہ ہے

دنیا میں اگر کوئی چیز قابل بھروسہ ہے, تو وہ آپ کی اپنی ذات اور آسمان پہ وہ رب

کچھ لوگ نظروں سے اُوجھل ہی اچھے لگتے

کچھ لوگ نظروں سے اُوجھل ہی اچھے لگتے ہیں اللہ آپ پر احسان کر کے لوگوں کو آپ سے دور کر دیتا ہے دوبارہ ان کی تمنا کر کے ناشکری نا کریں

بُرائی کا تسلسل اور شے ہے

بُرائی کا تسلسل اور شے ہے لیکن کمزور لمحے سب پر آتے ہیں لہذا کسی اچھے انسان کو اچانک کچھ غلط کرتے دیکھ کر اسکی شخصیت بارے آخری اور حتمی رائے قائم کرنا بہت زیادتی ہے

سورۃ الروم

اور جب ہم لوگوں کو رحمت کا مزہ چکھاتے ہیں تو اس پر خوش ہوجاتے ہیں، اور اگر انہیں ان کے گذشتہ اعمال کے سبب سے دکھ پہنچتا ہے تو فورً‌ا نا امید ہو جاتے ہیں

سورۃ الروم آیت ٣٦

حیرت ہوتی ہے اُن لوگوں پر

حیرت ہوتی ہے اُن لوگوں پر جو سمجھتے ہیں وہ چاہے ہمارے ساتھ جیسا بھی سلوک کریں جتنی دفعہ ہمیں روند کر ہماری زندگی سے چلے جائیں لیکن جب وہ واپس آئیں گے تو ہم گلدستہ لے کر ان کے منتظر کھڑے ہوں گے

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