The thing I learned this year

The thing I learned this year is that sometimes your 💯 percent is not enough for your loved ones, no matter how much efforts are you doing, no matter how much of your time, love and attention you give them they would not appreciate it.

But at the same time I've made peace with the fact that it's not mandatory to get the same amount of love, respect and time from your loved ones. they may be a priority to you but you may not be on the top of their priority list, you may love to share everything with them but they may hesitate to tell you even little things and it's okay to tell them what happened to you, what you did the whole day it is your choice to tell them every single detail but they may not feel free to open up their heart infront of you. Somtimes it hurts, not to be 'enough' for someone even though you're giving your all love and affection, after many years of keeping all toxic and broken bonds around I've realised that it's okay to give, it's okay to love and it's okay to make someone your top most priority but it's not okay to expect the same amount of love and attention back. everyone can't be you, every one can't be a giver like you're, some people just intend to receive either it be love,.attention or respect.

It's okay to care and love 🌺 but it's not okay to change.

How can you use a terrible word for anyone who has Iman?

A single word that can be offensive to someone is a horrible thing for anyone who has Iman. In other words, filthy language out of your mouth and faith inside your heart cannot coexist. You cannot have Iman in your heart and ugly words come out of your mouth. If you have no control over whatever four letter words you keep using every time you get frustrated, there's a spiritual problem, it's not just a habit problem.

How can you use a terrible word for anyone who has Iman?

It’s dark because you are trying too hard

“It’s dark because you are trying too hard. Lightly child, lightly. Learn to do everything lightly. Yes, feel lightly even though you’re feeling deeply. Just lightly let things happen and lightly cope with them. So throw away your baggage and go forward. There are quicksands all about you, sucking at your feet, trying to suck you down into fear and self-pity and despair. That’s why you must walk so lightly. Lightly my darling...”

After all life goes on

After all life goes on this sentence has alot of thoughts and sentiments in it.Although ,life is very hard journey full with troubles, hurdles,but time does'nt stop for anyone it has its journey from very long time ago.No doubt, life also has no full stop, people came and go but life goes on.Life is beautiful but it taught you many lessons as you grow in your life.A straight line is the symbol of death,so you have no worries and no difficulities but a curve line tells you that you have a life, you have troubles,bad time,good time,mistakes,and lesson in it.There is always change in life summer into winter, spring into autum and time passes very swiftly .

After All life goes on...!

It's okay to be happy

It's okay to be happy. sometimes we carry the guilt of it. the fear of it being torn away. sometimes it has been so long since the happy visited. you forget what it looks like. it is almost uncomfortable. you don't know how to make eye contact with it. you're afraid you'll scare it off. you'll try to connect it to a time, a place, or a person where being happy is almost wrong. but it's okay. let it iron the clothes. let it stitch the seams. we don't say this enough - how brave it is to let yourself be happy. but let it in. get used to the sun. accept the radiance. accept it, the way you accept the less sunny things. the less radiant things. the more scary things. even if it's been some time, even if you're afraid you'll scare it off. embrace it. put the trauma to sleep.look in the mirror. and say it as many times as needed: it's okay to be happy. it's okay to be happy. it's okay to be happy.

"I believe in Allah"

"I believe in Allah"

"I studied for the whole semester, I'll get the desired grades because I believe in Allah"

"I prayed day and night, why won't I get the person I love? I believe in Allah"

For most of us the definition of believe relies on humans, where we do a favour to one and "believe" that the favour will be returned.

While using the same word for Allah, we don't realise that our minds don't shift, our minds work with the same principle of definition of this sentence.

While we say we believe in Allah, we are unconsciously trying to impose a decision on the decision-maker. We are not believing in him, rather imposing a deal. We don't realise that Allah(swt) is far more superior than any "Give and take" .

So what does "believing" in terms of Allah mean? Quran defines it as "Taqwah" and it's meaning is far more accurate in terms of Almighty. Taqwah doesn't mean that if I'll do a certain set of things then I'll get the desired outcome. Rather it means I believe in Allah to an extent where I know, whatever the outcome will be, will be best for me.

For if he decides to bring mountains in my way, they'll teach me how to climb.

If he decides to put rivers in my way to success, they'll teach me how to swim.

It means believing to an extent where if you won't have anything to eat and will be dying the next moment, even at that harsh time, your inner core of the heart will still beat with the rhythm of "Alhamdulillah" . For Allah, whatever you've given me, and taken away from me, I thank you for that ❤️

I pity people who believe they can act like assholes to others,

I pity people who believe they can act like assholes to others,

And get away with it.

Let me break it to you:

You NEVER do.

It always comes back,

Usually twice as hard.

At some stage,

At some stage, you will feel drained and overwhelmed by what’s going on around you. It can consume you and affect you negatively if you don’t do anything about it. Turn to the Almighty for strength and the will to carry on. Keep asking Him and He will see you through. ‬

Oh, The Spirituality,

Oh, The Spirituality,

When Two People meet,

Learn each other,

Embrace each other,

Unite to become One,

The Unison of the Two,

So strong and so steadfast,

So warm,

So enchanting,

Oh, The Spirituality.

Oh, The Spirituality,

Exuding Love and Affection for the Other,

Selflessly loving the Other,

Supporting the Other,

Treading through the headwinds of Life with the Other,

That the Other becomes the Significant Other,

Oh, The Spirituality.

Oh, The Spirituality,

Embracing your Loved One,

Despite the flaws,

Despite the imperfections,

Despite the disagreements,

Despite the seldom coldness.

But with Love,

There is no breaking of the Unison,

The Unison of the Two drowned in It,

Oh, The Spirituality,

The Spirituality of Love.

A girl

A girl has so much facial hair - It’s the damn hormones!

That person has got small height - Defined by his/her genes though!

Why that person is so skinny - Not by choice!

She/he is fat - Do you pay for their food?

She/he has a Dark complexion - Its High Melanin dude and that’s absolutely normal!

OMG, She has got no dressing sense - Who made you a judge BTW!

LOL, He is wearing joggers with shalwar - You are having a head without brain!

That blogger doesn’t write so well – At least she/he tries and that’s somehow better than judging people!

That poor kid shivered while performing on stage - May be that Kid is going to do wonders in Future which you could not!

Ew, that nose piercing doesn’t suit her at all - Her Body, her Rules!

He/She repeats clothes every now and then - They paid for it and they have a Washing Machine.

He/She laughs too much - Active facial muscles prevent aging, No?

That student has no interest in studies like I do - He has got a Hidden Talent you don’t have.

She looks unhealthy without makeup, she should do it - Well, she owns herself more than you.

He/She is not that much beautiful – Beauty is in the eyes of Beholder, I guess!

Oh, those dark circles! - She/he might be having sleep problems.

She/He has no sense how to carry a dress – Oh No, Society won’t accept her/him now!

She/He is not fluent in English- Oh those Manmade Artificial Standards!

If he/she can’t sing, he/she shouldn’t have come on stage - Well, that person is having a lot more confidence and guts than the people sitting in audience doing nothing but judging!

Why do people love to talk about the insecurities other people have? It’s not that people are not aware of their traits but they don’t feel like talking about it. This is not a gossip and definitely not interesting and it won’t make you cool. Make people Comfortable in the way they are. Make them own themselves. Make them realize their skin doesn’t define their beauty. You are no one to Judge. You’re not judging people, you are judging their Creator and this will get you nowhere. Neither in Dunya nor in Aakhirah. All these manmade standards- THEY ARE TRASH. Let People feel free to do anything and everything without having the fear of being judged. It kills their self-esteem and self-confidence. Being kind costs nothing. Let people live by not destroying their inner peace. Someone might be facing a silent battle you don’t know about. Feel their inner beauty. Feel their heart. Make them believe in the goodness of people. Be Kind. World needs it the most.