AL-MUNTAQIM

🤍 AL-MUNTAQIM🤍

                   The Avenger.

If someone has done wrong with you,someone makes fun of you or if someone hurts your  feelings.Do not be sad or disappointed.Just go to ALLAH, make a dua and leave the case on Him.You do not have to fear them.Because Allah has given you the most powerful weapon and that weapon is DUA.

.Use that weapon.Ask ALLAH for justice.Because He is THE JUST.He is AL-WAKEEL.He'll give you the justice.His justice is not like the justice of this world which is only for rich who can hire the lawyers and poor people do not get the justice because they do not have enough money to hire a lawyer.Where poor and rich are treated differently.But ALLAH doesn't care who you are.If you've enough money or not and ALLAH doesn't care who your opponent is.

If your opponent is rich or not.If he is powerful or not.If people are unjust,you'll get your justice from AL-HAKAM.Ask him for the help and all your worries will be gone.He is seeing everything.He is listening everything including your DUA.He'll do the right thing on the right time.Keep your believe in Him and His justice and you'll see how He'll take your revenge.Leave your matter to Him.🌸

Keep making Dua and surely they'll be answered by THE ONE who is LISTENING and THE SEEING.

what i have learned in these 25 years of my life is

what i have learned in these 25 years of my life is, empathy doesn't come in a day or two. we throw this word around in the air so much but only some of us know what it actually mean.

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i often wonder, if my tears could speak, what would they say? if dark circles under my eyes could scream, what words would come out of them? if the smile I wear on my brave days breaks down, what would be the process? 

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its possible, and its actually very common that you can't relate with people going through traumas if you haven't been through one. sometimes when we are listening to others, there is a voice in our head saying "why isn't he/she moving on, its been ages now." or sometimes we try to make them feel better by taking them out or forcing them to come back to life, and its completely out of love. i get that. i do.

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but what I am trying to say is, when we go through phases of grief, loss, helplessness, avoidance and distraction doesn't help. there is a void, there is emptiness and nothing can fill that. 

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at times like these, the person feels like the burden he is carrying is the heaviest. the person might not be able to acknowledge the "truths" we try to tell them. truth is, they can't. they don't know how to. they might start telling you that your problems are nothing in front of theirs because they can't see beyond theirs. Patience, acceptance, forgiveness, moving on are processes, interlinked with each other. 

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even if you can't relate, just listen. listening is the first rule of empathy. its not necessary for you to relate with everything. don't force moving on, you can't take away the pain forcefully because it demands to be felt. 

and those who are suffering, you are not complaining or being ungrateful by talking or expressing it out.

you are very brave, you breathe each day and if that isn't bravery, I don't know what is.

love, strength and prayers, always.

I ,you and most of people in our society come across these situations often in our daily life

I ,you and most of people in our society come across these situations often in our daily life.

 It  is very common in our society specially outside banks and shops women and senior citizens are given priority and they get their turn earlier without following any qeue regardless of how many other people have been waiting for their turn for many hours . 

It is quite considerable that old people don't have good health so they can't wait much and stand in queue but I don't think there is any considerable reason for females not to follow queue .

 And now it is  becoming common practice whenever people see long queues outside banks or shops they just go back home and come along with old member or female member of their family and get their work done in just few minutes without any wait contrary to those who wait for hours to get their turn .Today I had to go to bank to submit my university  fee , I have seen this happening . Let's share a small incident with you , today I was waiting for my turn outside bank and 7-8 people were ahead of me waiting for their turn . Suddenly a man came along with his father and bought mask from adjacent pharmacy and gave it to his father and  asked him to go inside the bank as he was old so he will not have to wait ,now uncle went inside and  was  insisting again and again to take his son along with him but gaurds said only you should go but  , after 4-5 minutes uncle called his son inside after getting token 😂 and this way that man got his work done without any wait just because of his father while people who came before them were still waiting for their turn . It's just a one story , it's happens alot of times, sometimes outside banks sometimes at naan shops and sometimes at  others places. I am of the view that the separates lines /qeues for males and females are absolutely ridiculous , rather there should be token system , person regardless of male or female should get token and wait for his or her turn and get work done at his or her turn .  Females and males both should be treated equally and both should wait for their turn.Kindly don't link it with feminism or anti feminism  .

It's just my point of view you may disagree  .Do share your views , opinions in comment section.

لوگوں کی محبت کو اپنا غم مت بناؤ پس لوگوں کے دل تو الٹتے پلٹتے رهتے ہیں ۔

لوگوں کی محبت کو اپنا غم مت بناؤ

پس لوگوں کے دل تو الٹتے پلٹتے رهتے ہیں ۔ 

لوگ کبھی بھی وہ نہیں ہوتے جو نظر اتے ہیں.ہر انسان کے اندر اور بہت سے انسان بسے ہوتے ہیں ۔ جو موقع کی تلاش میں رهتے ہیں ۔اور موقع ملتے ہی باہر نکل اتے ہیں ۔ 

کوئی سفاک 

کوئی مہربان 

کوئی ملنسار 

کوئی دھوکے باز 

کوئی دوغلا 

کوئی ہنس مکھ 

تو کوئی تلخی سے بھرا ہوا ۔ 

ایک لمحہ آپ کے ساتھ تو دوسرے ہی لمحے آپ کے خلاف آپ کو پتا بھی نہیں چلتا ۔ کون کہاں بدل جاے ۔ برسوں کے تعلقات منٹوں میں ختم ہو جاتے ہیں ۔آپ جتنی مرضی کوشش کر لیں آپ لوگوں کو نہیں جان سکتے ۔ آپ کسی کو جاننے کا دعوا بھی نہیں کر سکتے ۔ آپ یہ کبھی نہیں جان سکتے کہ بند دروازوں کے پیچھے کوئی کس حال سے گزر رہا ہے ۔ 

ہو سکتا ہے کوئی کتنا خوش نظر آے ، کسی کی ہنسی کتنی ہی بلند کیوں نہ ہو ، وہ کسی ایسے غم اور تکلیف کا سامنا کر رہا ہو جو نا قابل بیان ہو

آپ لوگوں سے نرمی برتیں ۔ خواہ آپ کو جواب میں تلخی ہی کیوں نا ملے ۔ درگزر کرنا سیکھیں ۔اور اپنی امیدوں کو صرف اور صرف اللّه پاک سے وابستہ کر لیں. 

Thinking makes a huge difference in every aspect of life

Thinking makes a huge difference in every aspect of life. since you become able to develop your thinking ability ,you become able to divert your life into the the way of desirable success . A person who doesn't have a developed mindset may not be able to bring the desired results that he strives for , for it seeks a mind that is free of doubts 

,confusions,negativity,regrets and stress. While a person who thinks that he is able to get something done and his thoughts are prominant towards a certain aim or task ,well , he can ,and he deserves as the efforts for something is being decided  by his thoughts which are based on the rule of 'believe' in the 'self'. 

Our whole life is determined by the quality of our thoughts. The more  positive you think, the more this world will offer ,and the negative you think ,you deprive yourself from something you deserve and lose all your potentials and abilities that is found inside of you.

It's natural to have belly rolls when we sit

It's natural to have belly rolls when we sit.

It's natural to have skin blemishes.

It's natural to have textured skin

It's natural to have hip-dips.

It's natural to have body hair.

It's natural to have a certain amount of body fat.

It's all natural.

I repeat, IT'S ALL NATURAL.

Pls stop beating yourself up over unrealistic body standards. No one will ever be satisfied enough if all they're after is PERFECTION. Because that defined perfection, my love?

Is a fucking myth.

Log kiya sochien ge

"Log kiya sochien ge " the sentence which destroy milloins of dreams"

.Life is the name of a goal. Everyone has come to achieve this goal , but  Everyone has a different way. This world is a exam hall and we have come here to find out the  answer of our questions.The Students whome we call the bright future of a country. The students for whom every morning becomes a new challenge that knocks at the door of their minds. In this world, everyone wants to adorned to their dreams. Some run for worldly success and some for the hereafter, some people in this world do not understand the ritual of defeat and victory, we students who work day and night to decorate our dreams

But there are some children who sometimes give up on this journey.

 To the extent that they lose consciousness and lose their lives, opportunities keep coming and going in this world. This does not mean that you cannot regain it.

Someone well said this that of our life and we students are bating here and life is throwing ball towards us sometime may be this ball missed by us it doesn't mean we comitt the suicide we will try to hit tge another ball as like this we should try for another ball in which way we will get success.

If you want to be like the sun, you have to burn in the fire.Poeple always cirticize you on your work they can appreciate you simply but no one have right to judge you , for people's criticizing don't leave your struggles just you know your best do do what you want .

Life is not a contract to keep you happy. Dreams are yours. 

Best of luck

Much love and peace!

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When I was living overseas in an Arab country to study Islam.

When I was living overseas in an Arab country to study Islam.  ⁠

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I bought this bicycle to travel across the large complex we used to study in and I loved it. ⁠

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But here's the thing, I had to lock my bicycle after using it every time.⁠

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I would ride it, then lock it. Ride, Lock. Ride, Lock. It got annoying. ⁠

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So I started to just put the bicycle on the side; leaving it unlocked. ⁠

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I came out one day and it's gone. ⁠

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My bicycle isn't where I left it. It's stolen!⁠

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And I tell myself; what's gone is gone, what you gonna do. ⁠

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A few days later same thing happened to a class fellow of mine but his response to it was Sabr and Dua. ⁠

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He made this Dua taught to us by Prophet SAW:⁠

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Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un. Allahumma ujurni fi musibati, wakhluf li khairan minha ⁠

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(We belong to Allah and to Him we shall return. O Allah! Compensate me in my affliction, recompense my loss and give me something better in exchange for it)⁠

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You know what happened next, Allah SWT rewarded him for his patience. ⁠

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They caught the person who stole the bike and he also got his bike back along with a few others. ⁠

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"انسان"

انسان ہمیشہ اپنی انسانیت سے پہچانا جاتا ہے

اس میں جتنا احساس ہوگا وہ اتنا قیمتی ہوگا

لیکن،ہمارے معاشرے میں کوئی انسان ہے جو خود سے پہلے دوسروں کا سوچتا ہو؟؟؟؟

انسان اور جانور میں خدا نے فرق رکھا ہے 

انسان کو عقل عطا کی ہے جس کا استعمال کرکے وہ اپنی زندگی کے فیصلے لیتا ہے لیکن کیا ہم اپنے فیصلوں میں دوسروں کو نقصان پہنچا کے خدا کا قرب حاصل کر پائیں گے؟

اس ذات کے نزدیک اشرف المخلوقات کا جو درجہ ہے کیا ہم نے اس درجے کی قدر کی؟؟

روز اپنی زبان،ہاتھ اور حرکتوں سے کسی دوسروں کو تکلیف پہچانا ہمیں انسان بنا دیگا؟؟

انسان وہ ہوتا ہے جو اپنے آپ کو بھول کر صرف مخلوق خدا کی خدمت کرے 

ایدھی میں انسانیت تھی 

ہم کہتے ہیں ایدھی عجیب تھے انسانیت کی بات کرتے تھے لیکن ہم یہ کوشش کیوں نہیں کرتے کے ہم ایدھی کو اس بات پر فخر کروائیں کے انسانیت ان کے بعد بھی زندہ ہے

خدا کو نہیں چاہئیے تیرے ماتھے پر مہراب

تو بس اس کی مخلوق کا خیال رکھا کر!

کسی دوسرے کو حوصلے کے دو بول بھی آپ کو خدا کے قریب کر سکتے ہیں خدا تو ایک آنسوں سے مان جاتا ہے تو ہم دوسروں کو سزائیں دینے والے کون ہوتے ہیں؟

ہمارا فرص تو یہ تھا کے ہم دوسروں میں صرف خوشیاں بانٹیں لیکن ہر کسی کی ذات سے اگلے بندے کو صرف تکلیف پہنچتی ہے

خدا آپ کی عبادتیں قبول نہیں کرے گا اگر آپ نے اس کی مخلوق کو اہمیت نا دی 

ہمارا فرض صرف دوسروں کا خیال رکھنا ہے اور ایسا انسان بننا ہے جس سے خدا راضی ہو!

خدا ہمیں "انسان" بننے کی توفیق دے آمین!!!

ہمارا فرص تو یہ تھا کے ہم دوسروں میں صرف خوشیاں بانٹیں لیکن ہر کسی کی ذات سے اگلے بندے کو صرف تکلیف پہنچتی ہے

خدا آپ کی عبادتیں قبول نہیں کرے گا اگر آپ نے اس کی مخلوق کو اہمیت نا دی 

ہمارا فرض صرف دوسروں کا خیال رکھنا ہے اور ایسا انسان بننا ہے جس سے خدا راضی ہو!

خدا ہمیں "انسان" بننے کی توفیق دے آمین!!!

Alvida: the word of farewell

Alvida: the word of farewell. People fear to say or listen to this word. BUT I would deliberately like to say this word to every moment, every second, every person I ever encountered with ,' cause, the moments, seconds, or people, made you either happy or sad, would cause to let you stuck with them. I don't want to be stuck with anything either good or bad. I want to explore more, rather than thinking all day long about the moments and people. But that does not mean that I don't get emotionally attached to them, or simply, I  don't like those moments and persons. Nah. I LOVE EACH AND EVERYTHING COMES ACROSS MY LIFE. I just fear to stay lag behind, I fear to crave for the past beautiful memories because it won't let me see the beauty that awaits me in my ways.

SO IF YOU EVER HEAR SAYING ME ALVIDA TO YOU; JUST KNOW THAT YOU ARE EQUALLY SPECIAL TO ME. BUT... SIGH... I DON'T WANT TO CRY, ANYMORE.