Welcome to my blog!

Meet the Author

Blessed with the best _ Alhumdulillah!a million times for every blessing in my life.

Looking for something?

Subscribe to this blog!

Receive the latest posts by email. Just enter your email below if you want to subscribe!

Pages

It's okay if you're falling apart, can't live happily for a while but accepting reality is not a bad deal.

It's okay if you're falling apart,  can't live happily for a while but accepting reality is not a bad deal. You'll be fine very soon. Time is great healer. You've to live happily for your friends, family and above all for Allah ﷻ. 
Okayy!!
I learned to see the reality , accept the situation and move on. I love to see myself growing and living happily for the sake of those whose peace related to me. I love myself for being me because Allah loves me so much.

 // Who need peoples if you have Allah ﷻ If sorrows bring you close to Allah and helps you to find the truth  then what could me best than this?. 

I'm thankful to those peoples who was part even a single percent to connect me with Allah Sona. May you all find truth in actual way. 

Journey from songs to munaqbat, parties to prayers, friends to Allah was difficult but beautiful.
The only thing i just wanna say doesn't who was you and how much sinful  you was. If you repent from heart and soul and call HIM. He answer your prayers and hold you.



INTROVERTS

INTROVERTS

1🔷. Highly observant and less talkative:

Do you ever get frustrated with one of your friends or relatives who is less talkative and takes a lot of time to get comfortable around people and you just think that how rude they are? Basically these type of people are introvert. They enjoy their own company. They have very few friends whom they can talk to hours and hours and never get tired. They like to spent much of their time alone analyzing their own self and the world. Their observation skill is strong. Most of the time they are emotional, possessive and can analyze the pain of others. Instead of judging tha whole world they judge themselves. 

2. 🔷They are into quality not quantity:

Although they have very limited friends and their standard in relationship and friendship is high. They prefer quality not quantity. They likes to be around those people who are also introvert and don't talk unnecessary. They avoid arguments and unnecessary talks because they are non judgementals. They remain happy in their own world. They are heavy in their privacy and  when someone interrupt their daily routine and they got frustrated easily. Most the time they avoid social gathering as they aren't much goot at socializing. They need to recharge themselves after attending any social event. They feels like their energy is draining around people.

3🔷. Takes time to comfortable around people:

They often seems mysterious to others as they don't open to anyone easily. They are very selective and takes a lot of time in selecting the right partner of then decision making. They don't want and allow others to know them completely. They likes to create mystery around them. Once they become comfortable around someone they remain loyal and honest to them and do their best to stay with them.

4🔷. Love being alone:

Yes it is true that introverts enjoy their own company. The idea of being alone in home is thrilling to them. They find peace when they are alone. They enjoy writing, painting, crafting, gardening or other activities that is performed alone.  When they spent time with themselves they feel energized,fresh and Happy.

5.🔷 Empathy:

As it has been seen that most of the introverts are Empath. Since they are often feels disconnect from social world and they spent of their time in analyzing people inner thoughts and behavior, they are capable of sense other people's emotions,pain and feelings. They have ability to understand what other person is suffering or going through.

6🔷. Psychological issues:

Since introverts are not very comfortable people,they do not share their problems most of the time and just start dwelling on their problems instead of sharing. Due to poor connection with social world and loneliness they often become victim of Psychological issues like depression, anxiety.

EXTROVERTS 

1🔷. Social and outgoing:

Extroverts are usually social, chill and outgoing personalities. They feel happy,lively around people and social events. They do not like to being alone. They easily become comfortable around people and make friends easily. They cannot stay at home for a longer period of time as they love to be attend parties and social events. They find no difficulty to initiate conversation to new people in a social gathering.

2🔷. Make friends easily:

Extroverts are good at making friends easily. People also like to spend time with extroverts due to their ability to engage easily with others.They usually have large number of friends.

3🔷. Extroverts are flexible:

They have ability to manage themselves according to situation. Their coping mechanism is often good than introverts and they do not dwell on their problems. They are expressive about their emotions,feelings and problems. They have no problem in sharing their thoughts and feelings to the world.

Now both extroverts and introverts are creation of God and both are beautiful, unique and important and its own way. It's our responsibility to respect all the traits of extroverts and introverts.



جـــو آخـــرت کـــے لیــے جـــیـــتــا ہـــے


 *جـــو آخـــرت کـــے لیــے جـــیـــتــا ہـــے* 
 *اســـکـــے لیـــے دنـــیــا کـــا غـــم، غـــم نـــہیــں ہــوتــا* 
 *مـــحـــرومـــی، مـــحـــرومـــی نـــہــیــں ہـــوتـــی!* 
 *وہ دنـــیـــا کـــی چـــھـــوٹــی چــھـــوٹــی چـــیـــــــزوں کــــے لـــیـــے*
 *روتـــا نـــہـــیــں ہـــــے* !
 *اســــکـــی فـــتــــح و نــــاکــــامــــی کـــے مـــعـــیــار یــــکـــســـر مـــخـــتـــلــــف ہـــوتـــے ہـــیـــں!


I've realized this very lately that the most influential factor in our life is our surrounding

I've realized this very lately that the most influential factor in our life is our surrounding. If we are surrounded by ambitious, empathetic and focused people, we are more likely to imitate them. If the people around us are good, we would absorb their light and feel enshrined in their angelic aura. 

Same goes with lost, abusive and shitty people; if we are surrounded by narcissists, abusers and bullies, we are more likely to devalue and doubt ourselves. Every now and then, we would be confused, depressed and hurt. 

Hence, whenever we  find ourselves at our worst - broken, down-hearted or low-key -  we must look around and make sure we are surrounded by friends that are helpful, caring, and empathetic. The very first thing we have to do in order to get better and progress is to get rid of all the filthy creatures we have been stuck with.

Change your surrounding to change yourself.



To the girl who's finally free from her toxic relationship

To the girl who's finally free from her toxic relationship, 


Please don't go back to him. Right now, I know everything inside of you is telling you that you should because it's what feels right. Right now, I know everything inside of you is convincing you that you should because it's what feels familiar and comfortable. Right now, I know everything inside of you is persuading you that you should because it's what feels natural for you to do. 


That's just it, though. This isn't the first time you've tried to leave, right? You've left before, but you always came back, and for what? For him to mistreat you the same way he did those other times? For him to bring you down the same way he did those other occasions? For him to damage you even further the same way he did those other days? I can understand that you came back because you love him, but what I can't seem to understand is why you don't love yourself enough to stay gone? I can understand that you don't wanna give up on him because you two have been thru so much, but what I can't seem to understand is why you've given up on your own happiness at the expense of his? 
I can understand that he's the only one you think is worth it, but what I can't seem to understand is why you feel like you aren't worth more than what you're settling for? He obviously doesn't value you because if he did, breaking up with him wouldn't be a routine. 

He obviously doesn't appreciate you because if he did, arguing with him wouldn't be a hobby. He obviously doesn't love you.. okay, maybe he does, but the way he loves you is dysfunctional, it's unhealthy, and you're better than that. So please, don't go back to him. Let it be over for good this time. Be done with it, and don't waste any more time on someone who's so undeserving of you. 


وقت لگتا ہے سب ٹھیک ہونے میں لیکن سب ٹھیک ہو جاتاہے

وقت لگتا ہے سب ٹھیک ہونے میں لیکن سب ٹھیک ہو جاتاہے.اچھے دنوں کے لیۓ برے دنوں سے لڑنا پڑتا ہیں.جس طرح آپ اپنی ذندگی میں آنے والے خوبصورت لمحے کا انتظار کرتے ہیں تو وہ لمحہ آکر گزر جاتا ہے. اِسی طرح جس لمحے کے آنے کا خوف آپ ہر گھڑی دل میں محسوس کرتے ہیں وہ لمحہ بھی بالآخر گزر ہی جاتا ہیں..کبھی یہ نہ سوچیں کہ میں ہی کیوں...


وَعَسَى أَن تُحِبُّواْ شَيْئًا وَهُوَ شَرٌّ لَّكُمْ
شاید تم کسی چیز کو پسند کرو اور تمہاری مصلحت اس میں نہ ہو__  


بس صبر کریں اور پھر معجزے دیکھیں صبر کے.. کیونکہ وہ رب کسی کو اُس کی برداشت سے زیادہ نہیں آزماتا.


I wish I could give you a taste

I wish I  could give you a taste 
of the burning fire of the love.


میں نے ایک عورت کے چہرے پر نگاہ ڈالی، اور اس کی اولاد کو دیکھ لیا۔

" میں نے ایک عورت کے چہرے پر نگاہ ڈالی، اور اس کی اولاد کو دیکھ لیا۔
حالانکہ وہ ابھی تک پیدا نہیں ہوئی۔
اس عورت نے مجھے دیکھا، اور میرے اباواجداد کو جان لیا۔
حالانکہ وہ میری پیدائش سے پہلے مر چکے تھے✨🖤



To all the people who are energetic and determined

To all the people who are energetic and determined, 

To all the young souls who never give up,

To all the heroes who do not get tired,

To all the struggling fellows who do not stop,

This is you, this for you.


Embodying calm seems like an elusive dream, but have faith. It’s not out of reach.

Embodying calm seems like an elusive dream, but have faith.

It's not out of reach.

Before we accept anxiety as a companion, there are tools that can bring us closer to our always-calm center.

Your morning spiritual practice can really set the tone for the entire day that follows. 

So take the time for your soul care first thing. Before the phone.

Wake with gratitude. Read something inspirational. Write in your gratitude journal.

Meditate. Pray. Say affirmations.

Your practice is your power. 

You want ease and grace? Practice ease and grace. You've got this. 💗

From Every Day Spirit and Mary's heart.