‏ہوش کا کتنا تناسب ہو؟ بتا دے مُجھ کو

 ‏ہوش کا کتنا تناسب ہو؟ بتا دے مُجھ کو

اور اِس عشق میں درّکار ہے، وحشت کتنی؟

دیکھ یہ ہاتھ میرا اور بتا دَست شنّاس

رِزق کتنا ہے مُقدر میں، محبّت کتنی؟

عورت میں دکھاوا ہے اور مرد میں دیکھنا ہے

 عورت میں دکھاوا ہے اور مرد میں دیکھنا ہے 

اسلام عورت کو دکھاوے سے اور مرد کو دیکھنے سے منع کرتا ہے 

دونوں کا کڑا امتحان ہے 

حیاء بہت بڑی نعمت ہے ، اس کو بہادر دِکھنے کے لئے قربان نہیں کیا جا سکتا

اور عورت کو تو انجانا اور بچپنا زیادہ سوٹ کرتا ہے بجائے کہ بہت ' پتہ ' ہونے کے اور مرد ۔۔ اسے تو بہت خبردار ہونا چاہیے

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تم ایک نشے کے عادی بنا دینے والے شخص ھو

 تم ایک نشے کے عادی بنا دینے والے شخص ھو 

تمھاری آنکھیں دو کہکشائیں ہیں 

تمھاری مسکراہٹ کی کشش سورج کی شعاعوں کو شرماجانے پر مجبور کرتی ہے،

تمھاری دھڑکنیں حسین دھنیں ہیں جنہیں کرہ ارض پر  عشق کے واسطے اتارا گیا ہے

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تمھارا نام ایک دفعہ پکارنا 

گویا لوح دل پر تا ابد نقش ھوجانا 

کہ مزید کسی نام کو سننے اور پکارنے کی طلب ہی 

،مرجاۓ 

تمھاری طرف ایک دفعہ نظر کا اٹھ جانا 

ساری عمر تمھاری دھلیز پر پڑے رھنے پر اکساسکتا ہے

کہ ایک لمحہ دیدار یار میں ناغہ نہ ھو

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بالمختصر انت المسکر 🚬م

مختصریہ کہ تم نشہ آور ہو۔

مصیبتـــوں کو چھپانــا بھــی راز کو چھپانـــے جیسا ہـــے

 مصیبتـــوں کو چھپانــا بھــی

راز کو چھپانـــے جیسا ہـــے 

اِس کــے پتہ چلنـــے پر دشمنـــوں کــو خوشی ملتــی ہــے

اور محبتـــ کرنـــے والــوں کو تکلیفــــ

کوشش کرنے والے کو انکار نہیں کیا جاتا

کوشش کرنے والے کو انکار نہیں کیا جاتا

صبر کرنے والوں کو خالی ہاتھ نہیں رہنے دیا جاتا

دیکھیں آسمان اور اسکی بلندیاں ، کہ فتح کے سب دروازے کھلے ہیں۔

زندگی اپنے آپ میں ایک معجزہ ہے اس معجزے کو ہر سانس جئیں

اپنی نا امیدیوں کو نئی روشنیاں دیں اور اس حقیقت پر یقین رکھیں کہ 

"جو زمین سے نہیں ہوتا وہ آسمان سے ہوتا ہے، ضرور ہوتا ہے ہر انسان کے لئے ہوتا ہے" 

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بچھڑ گئے تو موج اڑانا واپس میرے پاس نہ آنا

 بچھڑ گئے تو موج اڑانا

واپس میرے پاس نہ آنا

جب کوئی جاکر واپس آئے

روئے، تڑپے یا پچھتائے

میں پھر اس کو ملتی نہیں ہوں

ساتھ دوبارہ چلتی نہیں ہوں

گم جاتی ہوں، کھو جاتی ہوں

میں پتھر کی ہو جاتی ہوں

I'm writing this with tears in my eyes right now

 I'm writing this with tears in my eyes right now

I can't take that anymore 

Since my childhood I've been seeing this heart-wrenching and brutal images of Palestinian children lying dead in their fathers arms and their fathers running helplessly in search of medical aid

It's been disturbing me since that time and I used to wonder why no one can do anything for them. The images used to haunt me back then But I'm soooo grateful and I'm sooo thankful now that I got to see those images at that time.

That my fellows, was my Education And my awareness which is coming out in the form of these helpless and angry tears right now and for the truth that I know..

Now I can educate our younger generation with the sentiment and knowledge that I've been carrying since childhood.

Our children needs to LEARN

Needs to know about the massacre and violence being done in Palestine.

Please take part in it by educating your children about the importance of our sacred places and Islamic history and the harm being done to it. 

#FreePalestine

There comes a point in our lives when we become so fond of a person that even the thought of losing them shakes us up!

 There comes a point in our lives when we become so fond of a person that even the thought of losing them shakes us up! In front of them you have bared your soul out, you need them the most, you love them the most but they don't love you the same way as you love them, that thought of losing you doesn't shake them up because they are only using you for their own benefits. First they make you feel like you mean everything to them and when they are tired of you they start treating you like shit. They keep playing with your feelings, they keep hurting you and when they find someone better than you, they just throw you aside. Then why do you want to hold onto them? Just because of the fear of losing them? Just because you cannot imagine living your life without them?

But dear you don't deserve all those sleepless nights, all those days when you wipe your cheeks after every few seconds, you don't deserve those days when you shut yourself in a room and refuse to start your day because your energy has drained out. You deserve a person who values you, who puts you on a pedestal and tells you that you’re perfect.

What are we really scared of losing if we let go? The maybes? The almosts? The assumptions? The 'what ifs' and what could be? But why do you care when the other person has already given up on you? They may have broken you down to the core, and you can do nothing but hide it, but they did not ruin you. You learned a lot from them, including that you can take a lot more crap than you used to know. So let go of everyone who disturbs your peace. You are valuable, so please stop tolerating such people who are so apathetic towards you. You deserve better than this❤️

Let them pardon and forgive. Do you not love to be forgiven by Allah? And Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.Al_Quran

 

Let them pardon and forgive. Do you not love to be forgiven by Allah? And Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.Al_Quran

Allah SWT has intentionally created human beings flawed and imperfect,so that He can test us.We are social animals as we interect and make friends we tend to build certain expectations from them.We want things to go the way we want.As people are different and flawed in their own unique ways,our expectations are bound to be betrayed.Interaction with people can be source of emotional turmoil.It's likely that they will hurt us sooner or later.our response to such reaction are most crucial as It's not what happens to us, but our response to what happens to us that hurts us.

Mostly,when we get hurt we tend to respond by anger and hatred.The problem with these responses are that these are shallow and  backfire.With hatred we give the offender direct access  to our mind and thoughts, which Will haunt us even more.Keeping hatred and grudges in our hearts is like  poisons that we drink and expect others to die.Why punish ourselves for someone else's mistakes?

Forgiveness sets you free and brings peace .As a believer of Islam one must be compassionate enough to forgive no matter how much pain the offender caused. Prophet Muhammad says that have mercy on people so that the one in heavens have mercy on you when meet Him at the day of judgment.There is a golden rule that treat others the way you want them to treat you,but there is also a diamond rule that treat others the way you want Allah to treat you.Forgive others as you expect Allah to forgive you.You say Allah is Ghafoor and expect Him to forgive your every sin you commit for 70 years yet you can't forgive your brother for one mistake,you expect Allah to turn blind eye on all your ill deeds and only see the good deeds yet you look at a person and all you see is a giant gaping flaw only because he hurt you once.Therefore if we want Allah's mercy we have to forgive people,there is no other option.He who demands mercy and shows none himself destroys the bridge that he himself has to pass.

Forgiveness is a Sunnah of our Prophet SAW.we always hear and read the stories of how compassionate He was .For 13 years He was brutally tortured by people of Makkah both emotionally and physically.we read the stories from childhood that how Nabi SAW was tortured.His loved ones including uncle Hazrat Hamza was murdered and his corpse was mutilated.Inspite of all these brutalities that our he faced ,he still showed mercy.After Fatah e Makkah when Muhammad SAW had the power to seek revenge ,He stood in front of people who troubled him in every possible ways,he said O people of Makkah I forgive you for everything you did to me and I have no hard feelings for anyone.Forgivness is beautiful Sunnah ,SAW never kept grudges for anyone no matter what.We call ourselves Aashiq e Rasool yet we are wronged once and keep grudges and hatred in our heart forever.

To be wronged is nothing unless you continue to remember it.

The degree of emotional damage is in direct relation with closeness of a relation.The probability that your best friend will hurt you is way more than a starnger ever will. Forgiveness is easy with memory of good things.It's true that they messed things up but remember the time when they were there for you when you needed someone,they believed in you at times when you didn't believe in yourself.Some may argue that forgiveness is good but you don't understand how much they hurted,the emotional damage is so deep that it's difficult to look at the good things,at these times remember that forgiveness is not about the offender and his offense at first place,it's about you & Allah,you have to forgive no matter what damage they caused because you want to be forgiven.Forgiving does not necessarily means forgetting and continuing to suffer .Sometimes we should withhold our trust  to make sure that they don't hurt us again.the world is imperfect,bad things are bound to happen,people will betray your expectations and hurt you.it's not too hard to tolerate people's flaws by understanding that they tolerate your flaws as well.If any bad thing happens we should deal with it rather than losing all our energy.The secret of healthy relations is that we should focus on the good things and deal with the bad.The willingness to forgive is a sign of spiritual and emotional maturity. It is one of the great virtues to which we all should aspire.Imagine a world filled with people willing both to apologize and to accept an apology. Is there any problem that could not be solved among people who possessed the humility and largeness of spirit and soul to do either or both when needed?Ramadan is a month of compromise and forgiveness Let today be the day you finally release yourself from the imprisonment of past grudges Simplify your life.Let go of the poisonous past and live the abundantly beautiful present.

The equation of life is never linear. It is a

 The equation of life is never linear. It is a rollercoaster; sometimes it takes you to the highest points (Read: happiest, productive, impactful) and someday it goes to the lowest points (Read: stressed, unworthy, negative) but we know both of these days and points in our lives are important. But what about the days when we are stuck in between both the points?

We often talk about numbness, voidness, emptiness and hollowness. The days what we are not trained for, the days which make us feel valueless, which decreases our confidence and competency to zero, despite we, are aware of the fact that in normal days we know that we are capable and competent. These days steal our creativity, our imagination and our trust on ourselves. Thus, we go back in our shelves where not responding to people becomes our shield, not being expressive starts defining us and putting even minor input or energy in anything seems impossible.

Making it more simple:

We stop writing, we stop working on our tasks, we stop focusing on self-love and grooming and we get confuse in naming it either procrastination or doubting on ourselves.

I hope if you are going through this situation, you realise that this "STOP" doesn't define your capabilities.