In this modern era, day by day we are losing the charm of Modesty. Nowadays, society's obsession towards "Comparison" is increasing gradually. Comparison between male and female, between their rights and duties and between the level of freedom they have. Women's are trying hard to compete with men's in every field despite being knowing the fact that they are no less than men's. In the hustle of comparison, women's forget their actual status.They think by competing men's and by becoming more successful than men's, they'll achieve their milestone. But unfortunately they forget that comparison are made between those things which are superior than you but not with those which are already inferior. Allah has created both men and women in different forms and assign different roles and responsibilities. Allah has never make any difference between these two genders. It's us who always make comparisons, vain comparisons. Allah has created men's to protect and guard women's as women's are precious and fragile. But somewhere in the chaos of comparison, women's has lost their preciousness. To all those women's who are reading this;
You're not born to compete men's. You're special and elegant in your own way. If you don't respect the status you have then how could it be possible that others will show respect to your status. If you really want to know about your rank, read SURAH NISAH in Quran. Quran is the evidence of your high status. SURAH NISAH is the evidence of your status. Just imagine Almighty has already revealed a complete SURAH about you and your status in Quran and here you're fighting with men's over futile topics. The SURAH has beautifully describe the status of women in Islam. And most importantly you belong from a religion the only religion which has given such high rank and dignity to women's . Don't let the so called norms of society to distract you from what position you hold or what you actually are. You're a symbol of Courage, Kindness, Love, Care, Loyalty and Honesty. Women in the form of a daughter are the source of Barakah and Rahmat. As a wife, she completes half of the deen of her husband. And if she's a mother then paradise lies under her feet. Even after knowing all this, if you still consider yourself less than men's then you need to change your mentality. Don't degrade yourself, you're the most beautiful creation of Allah. Is this declaration is not sufficient for your status that all the Prophets, Sahabas, Buzurg, Auliya and the best person of the planet Prophet Muhammad (SAW) were born from the womb of a women. Still you need the approval of others to realize what you actually are. Even after holding such superiority, women's are marching on road for their rights, raising the slogan of feminism, roaming half-naked around the streets and chanting the slogans of freedom. All these act of shamelessness will give you nothing except unending humiliation. You choose modernity over modesty and whatever choices you make makes you. Modesty is your crown and instead of wearing it, woefully you left it behind.
Earlier, when women had known their status, personage's like Salahuddin Ayyubi and Tariq-Bin-Ziyad were born from their womb. But now women has completely forgotten their status hence the society is full of Tik Tokers and Reel Makers. A man is responsible for the upbringing of a family but a women is responsible for the upbringing of a whole generation. If women is pious, righteous and knows her value then she has the ability to change the direction of whole family, community, society or a group. Stop humiliating and degrading yourself. Just know your worth. You're more than what you actually think about yourself. The day you realize your worth and straighten your crown, the world will become a more better place to live.
