Depression | My take on it

If you guys ask me to write a literal definition of the word I'll say I can't do that. Because I would say something and Google would that something else. You know! No conflicts but a pure heart to heart because cyber peace shalt prevail no matter what! So, yeah! We are all going through something in our lives but we don't talk it out. Why? Because we don't trust people. Or should I say we don't trust our very own selves?! I read on the internet that the cause of depression varies from person to person; it can be situational or biochemical. Therefore it requires different therapies. What I personally think is depression can control you and can throw you into darkness/ loneliness. Because if you don't be brave enough to talk it out/ vent you would be gathering a lot of pressure inside your brain, you know! And what happened to the classic? A container can only endure certain amount of pressure - then BRAIN? You know it can take a roll on your loved ones and in other cases; when you're constantly and regularly stressed out and do not communicate it effectively, you might lash onto others and draw your wrath onto them and you know the result! THEY'LL ALL BE GONE. ALL YOUR LOVED ONES. ONE BY ONE. I am not saying me or anyone who is reading it right now is facing this very problem, but let's assume we might come across such a situation in future? So, let's be proactive and read further.

REMEDIAL AND FUN ACTIVITIES TO CURE DEPRESSION | Said by one of my friends long ago

• Say prayers and meditate

• ME-TIME my friend. Get to know yourself. Read a book. Listen to podcasts. Learn to play a new game and whatnot? Google it. It always helps you out LOL

• This one is my favorite. I pen down my feelings. We all have notes on our smartphones, no? Write something everyday. It is the best activity to vent things out - at least for me

• Feel comfortable in your skin. You're too thin? That's okay. Are you too fat? Like I am? That's okay too. You don't have a car or a motorbike and you use public transport? Such as chinchee, W-11 etcetera like I do. That's okay too. Say you're driving a Mercedes Benz or Tesla X but you're not happy inside. Think!

• Workout. Give yourself 20 minutes a day. Walk. Stretch. Stop thinking about people. Burn those calories like a champ at home. Yayyy

• You're not a doctor, right? So stop buying medicines you think might relax or cure you. Consult a doctor. Don't Google it. It is going to be like: YOU'RE DYING IN 10 DAYS LOL

• Don't compare yourself with others.

Well, that'll be all from my side - if you feel like adding something to it. You're free to do so.

It's okay, '#She_is_just_different_girl!'

It's okay, '#She_is_just_different_girl!'

Its okay if she doesn't like to put tons of makeup to hide her brown skin. She still looks beautiful when she wears a cheesy smile on her face and spread it all around her. No matter from how much tough time she is going trough at the time.

Its ok if she is not interested in being a part of your huge parties, and that doesn't mean she is boring either. Because she likes to celebrate her individuality.

This too doesn't conclude that she isn't social. No, she absolutely isn't, in her small group of few totally crazy friends, with whom she would like to be totally SHE.

She never fears from her flaws and failures.

She puts behind all the scars that resists her to grow and move forward. That's how she is!

So, Why do you always try to make her feel ashamed of herself, when she laughs loudly. It's okay if she doesn't put a lock of fake shyness on her mouth and typical girlish attitude in her gestures.

What if she sounds bossy around the MEN!

Does it really make a difference and she sounds funny sometimes for not having those so Called fake "Adaz and nakhraz."

I mean why she should talk slowly, MAN! when she wants to speak out loud and shout like a kid. Oh, come on! Who are you to put a full stop on her way and stop her from the things --singing, dancing and cheering up her life-- that she loves to do.

It's absolutely fine if she doesn't want to live in the cage of old baseless rules of society.

Just let her be, what she really is!

You can't exclude or judge her just because of her being a different girl!

All of humanity in Unison call out to their Lord

There is a huge crowd, billions of them in the Empyrean. This is not a ordinary gathering but an assembly of the souls of entire Mankind in their pre-human, pre-flesh and purest form, as the soul being the purest form of human is unambiguos and unanimous.

They behold The Divine before them, gathered for a reason. To be witness to the Oneness of God.

ۚ اَلَسۡتُ بِرَبِّكُمۡ

Am I not your God?

قَالُوۡا بَلٰى​ ۛۚ شَهِدۡنَا

They said, "Yes, we do testify."

All of humanity in Unison call out to their Lord.

What a spectacle they have been witnessing, being in their purest of forms, at the highest of places uttering the most sacred speech and beholding the spectacular sight of the Most Exalted, The Most Sublime.

friendship is all about infinity

friendship is all about infinity, beyond, limitless, unconditional with zero expectations, the thing which spoils this beautiful relation is expecting the same amount of love which you give to the other person. it's not our fault, it's the heart which wants love, attention, and expects things, whenever we didn't received it, our heart is shattered in many pieces, create the walls around your heart that no one can easily climb, and break your fragile heart. protect your heart from a person who has no heart, and the one who never understands what you feel.

Make every trip around the sun better than the previous

Make every trip around the sun better than the previous

Learn from every experience in such a way that it becomes intuitive,

Because there is no pattern for intuition but to persevere in a particular state of mind,that is beyond logic

Try to endeavour to achieve your goals

Life doesn't always give you second chances

So stay true to your morals

Make your words eloquent

And then you will feel contentment within your soul!

Bullying , Ragging whatever name

Bullying , Ragging whatever name you give it in simple word these are all harassment .

Harassment from your classmates , colleagues , some stupid douchebags you pass on road on bus , your boss , to your teachers & these people have made so many varieties of it .

They mean nothing to us but still we crumble at their words , their behaviors .

There are so many stories like this hidden behind the fears .

Students develop phobia of going to school & college because of this & Do you know whose behavior mostly surprises me ?

the teachers , teacher who are supposed to be our guardian next to our parents unfortunately they themselves loosing this honor .

You won't believe how manipulative their words are , they judge , humiliate some students based on only their grades but also their looks , they even use abusive words for the parents & mostly their targets are those shy , introvert type of kid .

I know many of us face this but only few say this out loud .

At first I didn't understand why would someone hurt someone without any reason but then I realized that they do this cause they crave power not respect but power they think creating fear in other's mind about them will make them powerful .

Though I know the reason now but I still don't understand it & I don't even want to cause I don't want to sacrifice my conscience , my self-respect for this .

I'm better off like this , I'm better off being a fish out of water , I'm better off not fitting into their mould

We can never stop the world from judging us.

We can never stop the world from judging us.

This is a known reality that we are being judged by a great number of people from the very start, whether this judgement be affirmative or otherwise.This apprehension always happens in every single part of our life. There's always a fear in our heart that what people will say or think about us. Instead of taking a step forward, we just stop ourselves from sharing our thoughts, opinions or anything that we want to do. It's not just about expressing what you feel but it's about everything related to you. We've all been affected at some point of our lives by the words someone says to us or about us and each one of us has somewhat gone through this condition.There's no way to halt this conception.But unfortunately, we are being sabotaged by our own selves due to this groundless fear, we are trying to mold ourselves into something people want us to be. We all are aware of the fact that positive comments are for our own betterment and enhancement but those statements which do not have any role aside from hurting us and eroding our confidence should have no substantial impact on our lives. We have been blessed with only one beautiful life by the Almighty. Then why should we always care about others opinions? Stop being tied up with the remarks of the world! You just have to be yourself. Nothing lasts forever, these people do not hold any importance in your life. Mistakes are for learning and these are made by everyone, it's not just you. So, get yourself out of your bubble and listen to the REAL you. Stop allowing the world to be your kryptonite!

Be kind, be strong, be brave, be a dreamer, be a fighter, be everything, but above all, be YOU.

"SHE"

"SHE"

Every night she sleep on the pillow floating in the sea of her own tears, under the blanket of her fears and distress!

Every Morning she wakes up with sunken eyes, broken soul but still set her dreams in the hope of new day!

Every afternoon she keeps herself busy all day, she laughs to spring out all his exhaustion, she scream to let out the burden over herself!

Every evening she tries to be a better version of herself to make others happy!

And every night she fails and wish peace for another day❤️

It’s not about being happy,

"It’s not about being happy, that is the thing. I’m just trying to get through each day. I can’t keep asking myself ‘Am I happy? ‘ It just makes me more miserable. I don’t know If I believe in it, real lasting happiness, All those perky, well-adjusted people you see in movies and TV shows ? I don’t think they exist."

Gaza

This suit wedding of the fiancée of Fadi al-Ghazali from Gaza , his fiancée from Syria. Their wedding date was supposed to be in the coming days, but the israel army shelled their house before the wedding date come, Fadi has a strong love story with his fiancee